Friday 16 March 2012

Dating Women



If you are looking for tips on dating women, then this information will give you a few ideas. When you treat your woman right on a first date, they will likely be open for other dates, no matter how much money you have in your bank account or how you look. There is one key ingredient, and that is charm, charm, charm.  Although there is such a thing as too nice, girls will tend to forgive that. There is however, a few must not dos such as:
1) Do not diminish yourself such as
a. Making her feel so important that you look needy. If you are praising her or giving her a complement, couch it as a double entendre. You will achieve the complement yet still appearing to be a person of substance and stature.
b. Asking her to compare you with other guys – on a first date you will always come up short. Do not push this rhetorical button; it is too soon to get into this depth of conversation.
c. Ceding control of the date. Questions should not be open ended. If you are not sure of what she would like, then give her a list of two, or at most three choices of things to do next. If she is not happy with any of them, then you have have not done sufficient research as to what her needs are. Bad on you, you deserve to be dumped. (On subsequent dates, you can ask for ideas, but on a first date you should appear to be on top, considerate, but flexible).
2) The next common mistake is trying to impress her excessively. Do not crow and breast beat, and do not say how much money you make.  Just be a considerate partner, listen to her, and pick up the bill.  The first date is all about her, it is not about you. If she wants to know more about you, then answer them in something more than one word answers, but no answer should take longer than one minute, or else you are in the danger zone of saying too much and coming across as boasting or bragging.
3) Do not put her on a pedestal. That advice is more important if the woman is beautiful.  Really attractive women are used to being on a pedestal. Did you ever notice how often that really attractive women are dating bums?  That is because the bums treat them like any body else and they feel like they are being appreciated for what they are. In many cases the bad boys treat them like crap, but they like that because it is just different, and different is special to them. Nothing is more tiring to beautiful women as getting hit on – they have heard it all before.  The better thing to do is to just ask them something about themselves, such as what they do, what interests them, etc.
4) Wanting to go steady too soon in a relationship.  Both you and her should be obviously playing the field initially. If you come across as someone who would commit exclusively either on or just after the first date, you will seem needy and diminished in their eyes.  No woman wants to be dating a needy loser. You have to come across as successful in relationships, and therefore desirable in her eyes.

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