Wednesday, 20 April 2011
Most Common Difficulties with Dating Women
If you are looking for tips on how to date women, then this post hopefully will give you a few courses of action. When you treat women correctly on the first date, they will likely be open for other dates, no matter what your financial position is or how you look. There is one key ingredient, and that is charm, charm, charm. Although there is such a thing as too gushy, girls will tend to forgive that. There is however, a few must not dos such as:
1) Do not kowtow to her excessively such as
a. Making her feel so important that you look needy. If you are praising her or giving her a complement, do it jokingly. You will achieve the complement without appearing to be subservient.
b. Asking her to compare you with other guys – on a first date you will look like less because of the lack of history Do not push this rhetorical button; it is too soon to get into this level of feedback.
c. Ceding control of the date. Questions should not be open ended. If you are not sure of what she would like, then give her a list of two, or at most three choices of things to do next. If she is not happy with any of them, then you have not done your homework as to what her needs are. You are a moron, you deserve to be dumped. (On subsequent dates, you can solicit input, but on a first date you should appear to be on top, thoughtful, but flexible).
2) The next common mistake is trying to impress her excessively. Do not brag, do not boast, and do not say how much money you make. Just be a considerate partner, listen to her, and pick up the bill. Date one is female centric, it is not about you. If she wants to know more about you, then answer them in something more than one word answers, but no answer should take longer than one minute, or else you are in the danger zone of coming across in a negative light.
3) Do not do not make the mistake of treating her like a queen. That advice is more important if the woman is beautiful. Very pretty women are used to being on a pedestal. Did you ever notice how often that really attractive women are hanging out with hoodlums? That is because the bums treat them normally and they feel like they are being appreciated for who they are. In many cases the hoods are abusive, but they like that because at least the bum is treating them differently than everyone else does. Nothing is more tiring to attractive women as unwanted attention – they have heard it all before. The better thing to do is to just ask them something about themselves, such as what they are doing, where they work, etc.
4) Wanting to go steady too soon in a relationship. Both you and her should be obviously playing the field initially. If you come across as someone who would commit exclusively either on or just after the first date, you will seem desperate in their eyes. No woman wants to be dating a needy loser. You have to come across as successful in relationships, and therefore more interesting in her eyes.
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