A few generations ago, many adult women never experienced and orgasm. In fact, many did not even know what an orgasm was. Generations of women were raised with a lack of sex education, and often made to believe that sex was a painful wifely duty. In fact a twin study climaxing in 2005 found that one in three women reported never or seldom achieving orgasm during intercourse, and only one in ten always orgasm. Many women have serious troubles having an orgasm. A woman who cannot have an orgasm is similar to a man having an erectile disfunction.
So how can we change this, especially since today's women desire orgasms. Well let's begin by exploring what a female orgasm really is. An orgasm in women is similar to what men experience-there is a peak of sexual excitement, in a moment of intense pleasure, and a pulsing, twitchy sensation that extends throughout the body. The rhythmic pulsations take place within the pelvic area as well as the walls of the vagina. One key difference is that women don't have to have a recovery period, and may have many more orgasms with ongoing coital stimulation, usually within 60 to 120 seconds. In most women, there is no ejaculation of fluid during orgasm. This is an important fact for men to know, so as to not feel like they have not pleasured their woman, or make them feel inadequate because they don't.
With the help of a skilled lover, most women can have multiple orgasms if they want.
Unlike men who can ejaculate quite quickly if they are being masturbated---women need the right conditions. For instance:
1) They need to feel wanted, and appreciated a romantic atmosphere
3) A person they click with
4) Being at ease
5) The right degree if clitoral stimulation – not to rough, not too easy
You will not have great success in giving your partner orgasms if you fail to provide most of the above.
Men need to know that women will have different varieties of orgasms---the most common is the clitoral orgasm. The clitoris may be stimulated in a few ways, but the most common are oral stimulation or hand manipulation. The clitoral orgasm may be wet or dry, and climaxes in uterus contractions . Another type of orgasm is called the G Spot. The G spot is a bit of a chore to find: it is located on the upper side of the vagina – about one half way in. The majority of women will have the G spot a few inches inside the vagina, and on the upper side. Firm pressure is needed to find the G spot in its non-stimulated state. It feels like a spongy area about the size of a small bean. The location and size varies somewhat from woman to woman. When properly manipulated, the G spot will result in a vaginal orgasm.
Figure 1, Internal Female Anatomy:
In conclusion, sex with orgasms are something very sensual that can provide both partners with a wonderful rush of pleasurable feelings. The following checklist can help both of you have orgasms regularly:
1) Women like affection---use your hands, and or mouth to caress her body. Do not be rough as the genital area is extremely sensitive – you may want to look into something like KY jelly to keep things moist, especially if you have leathery skin on your hands
3) Use your tongue and lips to stimulate and gently suckle her breasts
4) Slow and easy is the only way to win this race
5) Verbalize, ask for feedback
6) Women like you to tease them sexually – touch and withdraw many times. This will build arousal, and heighten orgasm.
7) Use your own natural lubrication to moisten her clitoris – however she may need additional lubrication, you can buy lubricants at any drugstore.
8) Learn her body- does her nipples get hard only during arousal or are they like that at other times
9) Experiment so that sex does not get stale
10) Don't make demands: this could spoil the moment
Men should read and practice the techniques in this guide, because more female orgasms are the keys to the kingdom of much more sex.
If you are an sexually unhappy woman – persuade your partner to read this article, after all, your future happiness is at stake!
Good Luck!
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