Showing posts with label Dating. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Dating. Show all posts

Wednesday, 7 November 2012

What a Banana

I communicated with a guy online that a friend of mine had given my messenger address to, we chatted for about two months. We finally decided to meet for lunch one day as a way to see if anything more would develop. He lived quite some distance from me, but agreed to meet me on my turf. He showed up in an old truck (and I mean old) it looked like it had once belonged to “Jed Clampett”!

I greeted him and things started to go downhill even more quickly. He looked like he just came from a construction site, he was completely unkempt and his clothes were dirty, dusty and smelly. He told me that I would have to drive his truck to the restaurant. When I asked why he told me he was afraid that his foot would go through the floor as it was rotted away and he wasn’t sure if the piece of cardboard and duct tape he had placed there would hold.

We went to a small Chinese buffet for lunch. It was nice and the food was excellent. Things seemed to be looking up a bit, but that was short lived.  After telling me how nice I looked, always nice to hear, he proceeded to tell me that he only had two toes on one foot (like I really gave a shit) and how he had lost them as a child playing with his father's rifle. He then told me that he did not have a job. He had lied to me so I would go out with him. He was about to be evicted from his friends garage of all things. That was where he was living. He then told me he had no job prospects, no money and he knew he was not too attractive. He sobbed and cried hysterically saying if I didn’t want him he was going to shoot off the toes on his other foot. What could I do but just pat his hand and tell him to be patient that there is someone out there for him and that things will work out for him eventually. He did not have enough money to pay for my lunch so we had to go dutch; at which point we went to my apartment.

As we stood at my apartment door he remembered that he had bought a gift for me and that he had left it in the truck. He asked me what my favourite colour was and I said it was yellow. He then ran down the hall in excitement. I was kind of curious about what he would give me that was yellow. I soon found out. He came back with some ripe bananas for crying out loud. I was stunned!. At this point I was informed that since he had too much to drink, he would have to spend the night. Holy cow! I tried to push him out the door. He was very reluctant to leave so I did the only thing I could do. I threw bananas at him until he ran out the door as I slammed it! He continued pounding on my door saying let me in. I told him to take his bananas and go or I would call the police; so he left.

It proved to be a costly date. I have since moved and no longer allow my friends to fix me up.

I am going to try an online dating site. They guarantee anonymity. Hopefully the guys their can come up with something other than just their bananas to keep me happy.

Online Dating Sites



Thursday, 30 August 2012

Dating Seeking Love Online



This is a totally unscientific rant based on my own observations of people both in real life and on dating sites. I have observed the online dating industry for some time now, more as a curiosity than as a member.  As a member of several dating sites over the years, I have seen first hand how it is that people interact both successfully and unsuccessfully. I have also discussed dating and relationships extensively with people I have met who are/were in all types and phases of relationships.

So what have I found?
Perhaps not too much that has not already been discussed by others in the past, but perhaps with a different twist on it.

When it comes to people meeting in real life, well, that has been going on for millennia, I have absolutely nothing to add on this topic that has not already been hashed out by writers since the time that man first developed writing. 

When it comes to the Internet, which has only been into the relationships and matchmaking game for the last 17 years or so, perhaps I can give people some insights as to what to expect with online dating sites and how to maximize their chances of success.

So lets start with some popular misconceptions:
Dating Sites Have Fool Proof Matching Formulas
False – The first is that, quite frankly, people lie when they put up their profile information. Garbage in is Garbage out – lets see the brainiacs at the dating sites program around that one.

I Do Not Have To Work As Hard On A Dating Site To Find Someone I Like
False – Once you find someone you are interested in, no matter what the relationship you desire, to get on top of it, you have to spend a lot of time getting to know the person. And at some point you will become comfortable that they are not blowing smoke up your tush. If not, all bets are off and you are back to square one looking for someone else who interests you.

Internet Dating Sites are a Great Place To Find People to Date
True – If you are a person who uses dating to interact with someone that you are interested in; then a dating site is likely to connect you with many more people than you can possibly find via your own means offline.

Dating Sites Are Better At Connecting You To Your Soul Mate.
False – Maybe false is too harsh – it is a definite perhaps, and it depends on your attitude. If you are willing to look outside of your normal comfort zone, you have a better chance finding someone on an internet dating site that you would through your own personal network of friends.


So Why Would I Use An Internet Dating Site Then?Well, they are really good for people who are open to discovering more about what they are really interested in. They are good for people who have not been successful finding their soul mate in real life because quite frankly they are looking for the wrong type of person in the wrong places.  If you approach online dating with an open mind, you will likely be able to interact with many more disparate people then you normally hang out with, and in that process, discover more about what you like in other people, which may just change your mind about who you need in your life to complete you.

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So, open your heart and give online dating a try.

You can start here:
http://www.top100datingpersonals.com/onlinedating.php


Friday, 1 June 2012

Maximizing Male Masturbation




 The male orgasm can be a stimulating experience, the major function of the male orgasm is the ejaculation, however some men do not ejaculate with orgasm. The female orgasm is however still a bit of a mystery as to why it happens, it is generally believed that it is to help the sperm proceed along on their journey toward the ovum (egg).

 The majority of men are not at all familiar with their G-spot, some men don't realize that they have one. Some of you will be surprised to learn that the male prostate is in fact the equivalent to the women's G-spot. Not many people out there are familiar with this fact. It is also easier to find the male G-spot. For some people it may seem depraved to examine that area, but if you keep an open mind about it you could experience the most magnificent orgasms you could ever hope to have.

FINDING THE MALE G-SPOT

The male G-spot is pretty simple to locate, however, it does require a little patience. It is located below the bladder and in front of the rectum. Lying on your back seems to be the most favorable and comfortable position for this, so you will most probably need to use a bed or a large chesterfield. The process will be easier if you have your legs elevated which you can do by having them hang over the back of the sofa or by leaning them against the wall behind the bed. You may also want to try putting a pillow or two under your posterior if you are having trouble reaching the perineum. If this is your first time take your time and use a lubricant. Then slowly insert your finger into the anus and probe gently, you will know when you have reached the prostate gland when you come across the small lump the size of a chestnut that is roughly about two inches inward.

If your partner is on his back your palm should be up, be sure your fingernails are not sharp, and be sure not to touch your own genital area with the same finger you used to penetrate your partners anus. Keep in mind that not all men like prostate stimulation just as many females love having their G-Spot massaged and others find it uncomfortable. Once found and properly rubbed it will create an orgasm that is more stimulating than they have ever had with regular sex.

Prostate milking as it is also called also enables the man to experience multiple orgasms that are longer in duration and gives them the ability to ejaculate without being sexually excited before hand. It has been noted that the orgasms achieved male G-Spot stimulation can be 4 times more powerful and can actually last up to five minutes. It provides what is known as a full body orgasm.

OTHER FACTORS TO TAKE INTO ACCOUNT

 Before you and your partner engage in prostate stimulation or milking, you should take the time to make sure you are relaxed and not just start up in the heat of the moment. Some people will actually have a nice hot bath before beginning. Use a finger to locate and provide stimulation to the G-spot if you are nervous or this is your first time attempting this, there are sexual adult toys you can get that will help you get started. You should mixing techniques as well. Rubbing the penis while gently manipulating the G-spot is one option.

MISTAKEN BELIEFS

People often think that for a man to stimulate his own G-spot is weird and perverse, which is one reason why it is rarely used. G-Spot stimulation is as normal as any form of masturbation, it is not sick, strange or perverted, and it is not only for homosexual men. There is nothing  strange about enjoying the pleasures of self g-spot masturbation. As a very powerful sex gland it can cause a very dynamic orgasm, and it is perfectly normal to experiment with it.


“BE CAREFUL”

There are some risks associated with anal stimulation if it is not done correctly. Too much force on the prostate gland could lead to serious health conditions such as Gangrene, Hemorrhoidal problems, Blood poisoning and Transferring prostate cancer to various parts of the body. The recommended pressure on the G-spot is comparable to the amount of pressure you would use to rub your eyes with.

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Friday, 13 April 2012

BDSM


Online BDSM Dating is not for everyone. In case you do not know what it means, BDSM stands for Bondage, Domination, Sado-Masochism. Before you start having crazy thoughts about debilitating sexual beatings where two people are having fistfights in every room, you have to know that BDSM is often not that severe. For the most part, those people who get off on BDSM, seldom actually hurt each other, and it they do, it is usually more accidental than planned. More like jamming your finger rather than hitting it with a hammer. Even the whips that are used are designed not to sting that hard, and will not cut skin or even raise welts. People usually do not hit very hard because the thrill is in the excitement of the act, not the pain. Slapping your tush can actually bring on a more powerful orgasm. On the same note, the bondage side of it is quite real. Usually however it just means being lightly tied to a bed. If you ever go to a sex show, there are often several merchants who sell special beds for bondage, or special sheets with tie-down strips on them to facilitate bondage. The buzz is had by either dominating or being dominated. It is about absolute trust. What you will find is that BDSM can bring you to a sexual peak that you cannot understand until you have experienced it.

If I have convinced you to give BDSM a try, then you should try the following link:

BDSM Dating

Friday, 6 January 2012

Free Online Dating



There are thousands of dating sites on the Internet, ranging from excellent to scams. In reality, there are only a double handful of legitimate large scale dating sites. Most of them are just not worth the effort to join. The greater majority of the legitimate dating sites are not free. They will let you post your profile for free, and they may let you do some minimal things each day, but you will find it a very unsatisfactory experience unless you upgrade to paying status.

In general, you can see other people, but you will have to pay to contact them. But even if you do end up paying to contact someone, who ends up being the love of your life, that would likely be a pretty good deal. If you are interested in online dating, follow the link below and it will take you to a site that lists the best sites on the internet.


Dating Sites

Wednesday, 28 December 2011

Sex In The Clitty – Female Orgasms



A few generations ago, many adult women never experienced and orgasm. In fact, many did not even know what an orgasm was.  Generations of women were raised with a lack of sex education, and often made to believe that sex was a painful wifely duty. In fact a twin study climaxing in 2005 found that one in three women reported never or seldom achieving orgasm during intercourse, and only one in ten always orgasm. Many women have serious troubles having an orgasm. A woman who cannot have an orgasm is similar to a man having an erectile disfunction.

So how can we change this, especially since today's women desire orgasms. Well let's begin by exploring what a female orgasm really is.  An orgasm in women is similar to what men experience-there is a peak of sexual excitement, in a moment of intense pleasure, and a pulsing, twitchy sensation that extends throughout the body.  The rhythmic pulsations take place within the pelvic area as well as the walls of the vagina. One key difference is that women don't have to have a recovery period, and may have many more orgasms with ongoing coital stimulation, usually within 60 to 120 seconds. In most women, there is no ejaculation of fluid during orgasm.  This is an important fact for men to know, so as to not feel like they have not pleasured their woman, or make them feel inadequate because they don't.

With the help of a skilled lover, most women can have multiple orgasms if they want.

Unlike men who can ejaculate quite quickly if they are being masturbated---women need the right conditions. For instance:

1) They need to feel wanted, and appreciated a romantic atmosphere
3) A person they click with
4) Being at ease
5) The right degree if clitoral stimulation – not to rough, not too easy

You will not have great success in giving your partner orgasms if you fail to provide most of the above.

Men need to know that women will have different varieties of orgasms---the most common is the clitoral orgasm.  The clitoris may be stimulated in a few ways, but the most common are oral stimulation or hand manipulation. The clitoral orgasm may be wet or dry, and climaxes in uterus contractions . Another type of orgasm is called the G Spot. The G spot is a bit of a chore to find: it is located on the upper side of the vagina – about one half way in. The majority of women will have the G spot a few inches inside the vagina, and on the upper side.  Firm pressure is needed to find the G spot in its non-stimulated state.  It feels like a spongy area about the size of a small bean. The location and size varies somewhat from woman to woman.  When properly manipulated, the G spot will result in a vaginal orgasm.

Figure 1, Internal Female Anatomy:





In conclusion, sex with orgasms are something very sensual that can provide both partners with a wonderful rush of pleasurable feelings. The following checklist can help both of you have orgasms regularly:

1) Women like affection---use your hands, and or mouth to caress her body. Do not be rough as the genital area is extremely sensitive – you may want to look into something like KY jelly to keep things moist, especially if you have leathery skin on your hands
3) Use your tongue and lips to stimulate and gently suckle her breasts
4) Slow and easy is the only way to win this race
5) Verbalize, ask for feedback
6) Women like you to tease them sexually – touch and withdraw many times. This will build arousal, and heighten orgasm.
7) Use your own natural lubrication to moisten her clitoris – however she may need additional lubrication, you can buy lubricants at any drugstore.
8) Learn her body- does her nipples get hard only during arousal or are they like that at other times
9) Experiment so that sex does not get stale
10) Don't make demands: this could spoil the moment

Men should read and practice the techniques in this guide, because more female orgasms are the keys to the kingdom of much more sex.

If you are an sexually unhappy woman – persuade your partner to read this article, after all, your future happiness is at stake!

Good Luck!

If you found this article of interest then you should visit the link below:
http://www.top100datingpersonals.com/advice_for_men.php

Saturday, 24 September 2011

Take Your Bananas And Go




I sort of fell into communicating with a guy online for a couple of months because my best friend gave him my messenger address. We finally decided to meet for lunch one day as a way to see if anything more would develop. He lived quite some distance from me, but agreed to meet me on my turf. He showed up in an old truck (and I mean old) it looked like it had once belonged to “Jed Clampett”!

I greeted him and things started to go downhill even more quickly. He was rather dusty and had grease on his hands, and apologized saying that the truck had broken down on the way over. He insisted that I drive, and when I got in and saw a gaping hole in the passenger floor boards, I understood why.

We decided to go to an Chinese buffet. It was nice and the food was quite tasty. My assumption that things were getting better were unfortunately short lived.  After telling me how nice I looked, always nice to hear, he proceeded to tell me that he only had two toes on one foot (like I really gave a shit) and how he had lost them as a child playing with his father's rifle. He said that he had told me that he had a job so that I would not think him a loser. He was about to be evicted from his friends garage of all things. That was where he was living. Then this loser started to blubber that he had nothing. No job, no prospects and he knew that he was not good looking. He was so annoying it was pathetic. Rather than beat him about the head and shoulders with a baseball bat like I desperately wanted to, I just bit my tongue and consoled him. I said that he just had to be patient and the right one would come along. It just would not be me. He paid for lunch and then he took me back to my apartment.

He told me he had a gift for me in the truck and said he hoped that yellow was my favorite color. I told him it was and he seemed pleased as he raced away. I wondered what the heck he could have for me that was yellow, and I soon found out. He returned a few minutes later with some over-ripe bananas. I didn't know weather to laugh or cry so I did neither. Instead I just stood there in awe. At this point I was informed that since he had too much to drink, he would have to spend the night. I told him (over my dead body) and tried to push him out the door. He was very reluctant to leave so I did the only thing I could do. I attacked him with my bananas, hurling them at him until he backed up into the hall, then I slammed the door! He pounded on the door for me to let him in but I would not budge. I told him to take his bananas and go or I would call the police; so he left.

It was the most expensive date I have ever been on. I felt compelled to move, and change my messenger id and email address. My friends know better than to give out my information to casual acquaintances anymore.

I am going to try an online dating site. They guarantee anonymity. Hopefully the guys their can come up with something other than just their bananas to keep me happy.

Online Dating Sites


Saturday, 17 September 2011

How to Find Love Online



This is a totally unscientific rant based on my own observations of people both in real life and on dating sites. By direct observation, I have seen dozens of people succeed in finding a solid life partner using online dating sites, but I have also seen many more fail.  As a member of several dating sites over the years, I have seen first hand how it is that people interact both successfully and unsuccessfully. I have also tapped into my own extensive circle of friends and acquaintances in this same time period and also witnessed most aspects of the offline dating world as well.

So what have I found?
Perhaps not too much that has not already been discussed by others in the past, but perhaps with a different twist on it.

When it comes to people meeting in real life, well, that has been going on for millennium, I have absolutely nothing to add on this topic that has not already been hashed out by writers since the time that man first developed writing. 

Internet dating, which is a higher tech offshoot of the matchmaking services that have been around for hundreds of years, is a relatively new beast, and as such, there are some insights that can be passed on that most people have yet to learn.

So lets start with some popular misconceptions:
Dating Sites Have Fool Proof Matching Formulas
False – No matter how hard dating sites work at perfecting their compatibility formulas, they are handicapped by customers who lie about themselves, and customers who really have no idea what it is they are looking for. When it comes to relationships, people are much better at saying what they do not want than what they do want.

It Is Less Work To Find My Match On a Dating Site
False – Once you find someone you are interested in, no matter what the relationship you desire, to get on top of it, you have to spend a lot of time getting to know the person. And at some point you will become comfortable that they are not blowing smoke up your tush. If not, all bets are off and you are back to square one looking for someone else who interests you.

Internet Dating Sites are a Great Place To Find People to Date
True – There is just so many people and so much selection on dating sites, it is almost a walk in the park to find someone to date (for a walk in the park of course).

Internet Dating Sites Are More Likely To Find My Soul Mate.
False – Maybe false is too harsh – it is a definite perhaps, and it depends on your attitude. If you are willing to look outside of your normal comfort zone, you have a better chance finding someone on an internet dating site that you would through your own personal network of friends.


So What Good Are Dating Sites Anyway-well, they are really good for people who are open to discovering more about what they are really interested in. They are good for people who have not been successful finding their soul mate in real life because quite frankly they are looking for the wrong type of person in the wrong places.  If you approach online dating with an open mind, you will likely be able to interact with many more disparate people then you normally hang out with, and in that process, discover more about what you like in other people, which may just change your mind about who you need in your life to complete you.

You should approach using a dating site as you would approach using any new tool that can improve your productivity. It is possible for someone to use a tool incorrectly and end up being hurt. It is possible to be sloppy how you use a tool and end up getting inferior results (don't blame the tool). If you take the time to learn the advantages and disadvantages of the tool, and employ that tool correctly, then you have the optimal chance of finding your perfect match.

So, open your heart and give online dating a try.

You can start here:
http://www.top100datingpersonals.com/onlinedating.php



Thursday, 1 September 2011

Dating Date from Hell



A Date? Or Was It The Date From Hell!

Sonia Varaschin died at the hands of someone that she met on plentyoffish.com.

This tragedy near Orangeville Canada highlights the risks and dangers of meeting someone online. Even though the killer left a trail of information on Sonia's computer, it was difficult for police to delve through. This is mainly do to the anonymous nature of dating sites, and the ability of stalkers to totally hide on totally free dating sites. In any event, none of this was any help to Sonia herself.

In choosing a free dating site like plentyoffish.com, the victim unwittingly maximized her risks. Let me qualify this statement.
I am not singling out plentyoffish.com, because other free online dating sites like OKcupid.com fall in the same camp.  These are not the only sites, but are two of the largest sites in this camp. Many of these sites are not even cognizant of the increased risk that they expose their customers to.

The problem here is that any site that allows two people to communicate in any way for free is dangerous. Here is why.

There are a lot of freaks and perverts out there. These range from well intentioned bumblers to axe murderers. There is a very real chance that someone who appears to be nice in a chat room is not so wonderful in real life, and the most dangerous ones are very clever at hiding their anti-social behavior. The epitome of dangerous people are axe murdering predators. They will take your life without a second thought.

Free dating sites are not the only sites where you can expose yourself to danger.
Other social networking sites like facebook also have this problem. You may think that it is safe to accept a friend request from the friend of a friend – after all you trust your friends. But in fact, your friend may very well be the type of person who always accepts friend requests without actually knowing the person. You are not safe unless you know which of your friends would never accept friend requests from unknown people.

Social networking sites that require some form of payment before allowing communication are inherently safer. Sexual predators stay clear of pay sites because the money is too easy to trace back to them.  On the other hand, it only takes them a small amount of time to set up a string of bogus email account on yahoo ,then set up a fake email account on GMail ,then erase the initial yahoo account.  At that point you can now go into the GMail account and point the base email account to some fictitious email account on AOL, and you have pretty much left a tough trail for police to track.  The really smart stalkers will use a free email account trail crossing providers based in several different countries so that police have to do tons of paperwork to get access to the records.  Once the stalker has a largely untraceable email account on a free service like GMail, then they are free to use it to join all the free communication sites out there.  If they couple this with a disposable cell phone, you are now fully communicating with someone who looks legit, but is untraceable by anyone. They are free to do what they please with you..

So what can be done about it?
For starters, stay clear of free dating sites. They  increase your exposure to danger to unacceptable levels.
These next tips are just common sense details:
1) Make sure that you talk online a long time before committing to meeting the person in real life. Keep all details about who you really are or where you live private until you know them better.
2) At the point where you want to hear their voice, use an untraceable cell phone or myprivateline.com.
3) Before you commit your heart, make sure you are doing due diligence on this person. Be careful with what you say, and listen carefully to what is said. Consider recording the call so you can take notes after.  Look for changes in the lines that they string you. Ask for the same information a few different ways over the course of your initial acquaintance and make sure the answers are consistent. Inconsistent answers are all danger signals. Stalkers usually have more than one potential victim that they are stringing along, and will often confuse details in what they tell each mark.
4) Get recent pictures of them. How can you be sure they are recent? Well to be really sure, get them to take a close-up picture of themselves holding up today's paper.
5) Be upfront and tell them that you are being careful. If they are honest and aboveboard, then they will not take offence and will comply. You must also be willing to do the same. Consider using the public library and use a current newspaper from a different town to keep your location secret.
6) Your first date should be short, a coffee shop rather than a bar, and be in the daytime and short. Do not go home with him or let him take you home. Be upfront and tell him that you have told your friends where you are.
7) Use your camera phone to take a picture of your date and send it to a friend while you are on the date, just in case something happens. If they have a problem with you doing this, then get out yesterday!

Use your head before you let yourself lose your heart.

Now for a good resource to find sites where men have to pay to contact you, check out the following link:

Online Dating Sites


 

Friday, 27 May 2011

How To Stimulate an Orgasm in Women




Before 1960, most adult females never experienced and orgasm.  In actuality, a lot of them did not understand what an orgasm was.  Most women were reared with a lack of sex education, and usually believed that sex had to be painful, thus ensuring that the were not receptive to any form of pleasure. In fact a twin study climaxing in 2005 found that one in three women reported never or seldom achieving orgasm during intercourse, and only one in ten always orgasm. Orgasms don’t come easily for many women. A woman who cannot have an orgasm is as frustrated as a man with an erectile disfunction.

Now the question is how do we change all this, especially since today's women want orgasms. Lets first define the physiology of a female orgasm.  An orgasm in women is not overly different from that in men-there is a peak of sexual excitement, marking a moment of incredible enjoyment, and a pulsing, electric sensation that spreads out through the body.  Rythmiccontractions take place within the pelvic muscles as well as the walls of the vagina. Another difference here is that women don't experience a refractory period, and will usually be able to have multiple orgasms with continued clitoral stimulation, often within a minute or two. In most women, there is no ejaculation of fluid during orgasm.  This is an important fact for men to know, so as to not feel like they have not pleasured their woman, or make them feel inadequate because they don't.

With the right partner, most women can achieve multiple orgasms if they so desire.

Women are physiologically pickier than men when it comes to achieving an orgasm. For instance:

1) Women need to feel wanted, and appreciated A romantic atmosphere
3) A partner whom they really like
4) Comfortable surroundings
5) A partner that knows how to stimulate the clitoris

You will not have great success in giving your partner orgasms if you fail to provide most of the above.

Men should understand that women will have different varieties of orgasms---the most common is the clitoral orgasm.  The clitoris is a woman's main sexual pleasure point and can be stimulated orally or with the fingers. The clitoral orgasm can have fluid expelled or be dry, and leads to pulsations within the uterus . Another type of orgasm is called the G Spot. The G spot is tougher to zero in on: it is located on the upper wall of the vagina about the length of your index finger in. In most women the G-spot is about 3 inches into the vagina, and near the neck of the bladder where it connects with the urethra.  Firm pressure is needed to find the G spot in its non-stimulated state.  It is a softer area that is about one half centimeter in size. The exact size and location can vary slightly from female to female.  A vaginal orgasm will usually occur if the G-spot is appropriately stimulated.

Figure 1, Internal Female Anatomy:





In summary, sex is a wonderful thing that should provide both partners with incredible feelings of pleasure. The following can help your lady companion have orgasms regularly:

1) 2)Do not be rough as the genital area is extremely sensitive – you may want to look into something like KY jelly to keep things moist, especially if you have leathery skin on your hands
3) Gently kiss her breasts to create excitement
4) Take it slow- it is not a race
5) Verbalize, ask for feedback
6) Be a tease- touching her pleasurable spots then withdrawing over, and over again. This will build arousal, and heighten orgasm.
7) If she is dry – the most likely case at the beginning of sexual intercourse, use your own natural lubrication, or else use a lubricant like KY Jelly – if she is dry, sex will be painful and cause lasting damage.
8) Learn her body- does her nipples get hard only during arousal or are they like that at other times
9) Experiment: try different things
10) Do not push to try new things – experimentation must be mutual or else it will cause you to lose the moment

All men, can use this as a guide to helping your women have a more pleasurable experience, and helping her achieve many orgasms.

If you are an unsatisfied woman – nag your partner to read this article, after all, your future happiness is at stake!

Good Luck!


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