Where will women's foot fashion go next.
Lately, women are squeezing their agonized tootsies into bondage booties and wandering around the various pathways in their lives looking like something out of some blue movie.
The Femdoms of fashion have determined that bondage BDSM chic has supplanted the former heroin chic thus making fashion slaves look as if they are wrapped in some sort of criss-crossing cat-o-nine-tails.
Everywhere, women’s shoes have grown into something Darth Vader would wear of he was meaner and into cross dressing. Even the fashion blogs have trouble describing these bondage booties for BDSM babes.
Bondage and BDSM is the anchor for this wild bent to beastly bondage. This is the obvious sequence after the punk chic types of female role models you see in the music world. One blog describes it as: “Like so many other things that were only recently considered too sexually charged to see the light of day, in a few short years the leather harness has infiltrated the realms of what we consider fashionable.”
Men all over the world are drooling in eager anticipation
When bondage and fem fetish fashion first hit our fashion awareness a couple of years ago it was all leather, studs, bodycon and chains. Now it has moved on to leather harnesses reminiscent of Ilsa of the SS. Soon, every self-respecting executive assistant will feel the compulsion to show up at work in jackboots, chains, a leather uniform and dual whips. Every executive's wet dream I am sure.
Perhaps there will soon be a whole line of de rigueur office accessories!
New catalogs of products might include: captive visitor chairs, whipping posts, leather whips, prisoner stocks, and tie down desks! What better way to set an example to other employees for mis-behavior in the workplace! Just think about it! If you hire the right types of people up front, they might actually enjoy the exercise rather than complain to the local labor board! This could be an entirely new job perk, both for subby employees and dom bosses.
I guess my mind has wandered too much as I see this poor wretches hobble along. I cannot help but wonder though. What are you females smoking every day? Turn your back on this junk! You have nothing to gain but your dignity! Vive le soft soled shoe!
Generations of women fought for equality in the workplace, for control over their own bodies and for a right to self-determination. But did that fight include the right to orthopedic surgery? I suppose it must have since so many women seem so hell bent in traveling down that road.
As this new generation of women dress for work every morning in their leather fashion uniform of the season, they see only the mean bitch of a boss they hope to be some day!
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Online BDSM Dating is not for everyone. In case you do not know what it means, BDSM stands for Bondage, Domination, Sado-Masochism. Before you start having crazy thoughts about debilitating sexual beatings where two people are having fistfights in every room, you have to know that BDSM is often not that severe. For the most part, those people who get off on BDSM, seldom actually hurt each other, and it they do, it is usually more accidental than planned. More like jamming your finger rather than hitting it with a hammer. Even the whips that are used are designed not to sting that hard, and will not cut skin or even raise welts. People usually do not hit very hard because the thrill is in the excitement of the act, not the pain. Slapping your tush can actually bring on a more powerful orgasm. On the same note, the bondage side of it is quite real. Usually however it just means being lightly tied to a bed. If you ever go to a sex show, there are often several merchants who sell special beds for bondage, or special sheets with tie-down strips on them to facilitate bondage. The buzz is had by either dominating or being dominated. It is about absolute trust. What you will find is that BDSM can bring you to a sexual peak that you cannot understand until you have experienced it.
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As a single working women I was tired of coming home to an empty apartment and eating alone every night. With very little time to socialize, I decided to try one of those online dating sites. A good friend suggested a site called PlentyOfFish. The name seemed strange to me, but I joined anyway. To my way of thinking, it seems that plenty of fish is good at catching the fishermen, but not so good at helping the fishermen catch fish. Needless to say, I was not impressed with the matches that I got on that site. Maybe I should have been using worms for bait rather than me.
My first date with anyone from POF was with a guy from France. On our first date, the only thing that he wanted to do was to go to his house for drinks. I wanted to get to know him better before going to his house. Besides, I was hungry. So I suggested we go someplace for some food. He looked at me very strangely grabbed my arm and replied, “I am not wanting to know you. I am only wanting sex.” Well I suggested that if he touched me I would string him up by the eyelids and kick him in the nuts until he blinked!
OMG , I could go on for weeks telling you horror stories from POF connections. Married men, perverts, pigs who say they're looking for long term relationships but only want to get you in bed. Then of course there are the borderline stalkers that call even after you tell them you are not interested. I do not get the mentality of some guys who think that by being excessively persistent you will somehow change your opinion of them. Sometimes even the threat of police action does not deter them. There is even a Gaga video that shows POF being used in prison. From my experiences, I will bet money that prison inmates have full access to this site.
I personally have never met so many liars and fakes in one place in all my life. I met at least 30 guys in person and only one was worth dating, and as it turned out he was only looking to marry someone because he was an illegal immigrant who wanted to stay in the country. I found one good way to cull out most of the phonies though. I set up a toss away account on hotmail and then invite them for a video chat. I only went out with the ones that looked something like their online photo, and could hold an intelligent conversation interactively. POF does have one good thing to say about it. If you are a bit short on looks, you will still get a lot of attention.
The last straw for me with POF came when I made a date with a so called registered accountant, who by the way lives in a first class condo in down town New York. The evening started out on a high note. We went to a really nice Italian restaurant, where we ordered lasagna and a nice Chianti to go with it. For desert we had tiramisu. I had never went back to anyone's apartment before on a first date, but I made a rare exception in his case. Everything seemed to be on the up and up with him. He was attentive in his apartment as well. We listened to music while we talked and kissed and snuggled. It was so great! Of course, the inevitable happened. The creep got around to telling me that he wanted me to prance around his apartment naked wearing nothing but a horse tail butt plug. Well after I hit him with my purse and told him what I thought of him I cantered out of his life.
It was then I realized that POF was not for me and deleted my profile. I was discouraged, and decided to never join another dating site.I was in the dumps about all of this and I promised myself that I would never do internet dating again. My friend, seeing how disillusioned I had become, decided to do some searching of her own. She told me she had stumbled upon a link that took her to a page that was full of dating site links for all kinds of dating preferences. She told me I should check it out. She was sure I would find a site that had what I was looking for. When I got there I viewed it with a lot of skepticism, but once I realized the POF was not on their recommended list, they gained a bit in my esteem. I was also surprised to find that eharmony was not there either – with all the ads on TV I had seen, they were the one I was going to try next, but they were just so darn expensive. I checked out a few of the sites and signed up on three. The nice thing was that all of these were free for women, but the men had to pay. That must help filter out a lot of the cretins, because it has been better. Best move I ever made. Now I am meeting decent men who are not looking for a bed buddy, but are genuinely looking for serious long term relationships. My happiness index has gone up a few points since then because I now have a social life again. What a nice change!
Most dating sites are not bad, although the totally free ones tend to attract more riffraff I am told. Even the best dating sites will have a few bad apples in them. You have to be on your guard anywhere. With internet dating you have to practice safe hex before you practice safe sex. Some sites will take that little extra step in an effort to keep their site safe. Bad apples will always find away to slip in to any site though, so its up to you to be aware of this and to not give out to much private information.
So check out the following link. I am sure you will find not only great sites like I did, but some really good advice in the articles. Good luck.
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Everyone has their own ideas of what sexy means.
The idea of sexy has many different meanings to individual people.
Over the years, so to have ideals, examples and vision of what it is that defines sexy.
Sex, for much of the last hundred years, was considered to be a not to be discussed in polite company topic.
Once films became a big part of everyone's life, the idea of being seen with a large woman on your arm gradually became less in vogue with most men. Big Screen sirens were usually much thinner than the average for their time. The reason was simple; cameras add pounds to anyone's form, so stars tended to were slimmer in real life to appear normal on the screen. Slowly, the the idealized form of sexy gradually shifted from voluptuous to thin.
There is now a shift in place that is changing the ideal of sexy to larger sizes.
With plastic surgery, larger breasts are back in style, even on skinny women.
Push up bras with even triple padding are all the rage among the slim set, but when their male companions see them while horizontal on, the the truth is out. Men are disappointed with push-up-bra wearing women. So, many men are now look at more naturally enhanced women, so voluptuous is back in vogue. And on that note, who is more curvy than a big beautiful woman?
When you look back in time, voluptuous women were considered to be most desirable. Larger women were seen as mother figures, and children were a necessity in hunter-gatherer and agricultural societies. Even in cave man days, small statues usually idealized their goddesses as voluptuous women and in most cases these statuettes were more obese than voluptuous.
The lyrics in "Fiddler On The Roof" (If I Was a Rich Man) which talks about Russian peasant society at the turn of the twentieth century exemplifies a rich man's wife as having a proper double chin. In other words, for much of the past, being meatier was a status symbol, because it proved you had an abundance of food, and therefore must be wealthy.
In the last half of the twentieth century, there has been a new incoming citizens from many various societies into north America. With these cultural groups have also come the more traditional preference for larger families and women who will bear larger families. The well endowed woman is back in fashion.
Who knows, maybe in a few more years, Hollywood hotties will be BBW's. Mae West was certainly not in any way skinny, but in the early twentieth century she was most men's wet dream.
If you are interested in meeting and dating a BBW, or if you are a big beautiful woman looking to meet a man who will appreciate you for what you are, then you should check out this page.
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There are also a lot of other types of dating sites out there, so for those of you who are not into big beautiful women, this link is for you:
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Where will women's foot fashion go next.
Lately, women are squeezing their agonized tootsies into bondage booties and walking down their community streets looking like something out of some B movie.
It would seem that the fembots of fashion have determined that bondage BDSM chic has supplanted punk chic thus making otherwise sane females look as if they are posing for some Nazi recruiting poster.
In most places, women’s foot fashion has morphed into something Delilah would wear as she snipped Sampson's hair off. Even fashion articles have difficulty articulating this new trend to BDSM chic.
Bondage and BDSM in general is the basis for this outlandish style shift. Probably this is just the natural (unnatural?) outcome after the punk chic types of female role models you see in the music and recording scene. One blog, takes the wraps off the whole sordid affair: “Like so many other things that were only recently considered too sexually charged to see the light of day, in a few short years the leather harness has infiltrated the realms of what we consider fashionable.”
Gotta love that if you are a warm blooded male!
When bondage fashion first started to make the scene a couple of years ago, it was mostly leather, studs with the occasional chain. Now it has moved on to leather harnesses reminiscent of Ilsa of the SS. Soon, every self-respecting personal assistant will feel the need to appear at work in jackboots, chains, a leather uniform and dual whips. Every supervisor's fantasy I am sure.
Likely there will be an explosion of BDSM office accessories!
New products might include: spanking paddles, whips, prisoner punishment stocks, whipping posts and guest chairs complete with tie down straps! What better way to set an example to other employees for mis-behavior in the workplace! Just think about it! If you hire the right types of people up front, they might actually enjoy the exercise rather than complain to the local labor board! This could be an entirely new job perk, both for subby employees and dom bosses.
Well maybe I have fantasized a bit excessively with this daydream as I watch all the leather, studs and straps traipse by. You gotta wonder though. What the heck are you women thinking about? Boycott this crap! You cannot lose, because you have already lost your dignity! Strike a blow for sensible shoes!
Generations of women who fought for equality of women are turning over in their graves as this new generation capitulates to stereotype the female once again.
Meanwhile, what do you suppose Ms. Fashionista Dominatrix sees in the mirror when donning her power bondage outfit for work? Probably she sees one mean bitch of a woman who is going to, quite literally, kick some sorry ass today!
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