Maximizing Male Masturbation

 The male orgasm can be a stimulating experience, the major function of the male orgasm is the ejaculation, however some men do not ejaculate with orgasm. The female orgasm is however still a bit of a mystery as to why it happens, it is generally believed that it is to help the sperm proceed along on their journey toward the ovum (egg).

 The majority of men are not at all familiar with their G-spot, some men don't realize that they have one. Some of you will be surprised to learn that the male prostate is in fact the equivalent to the women's G-spot. Not many people out there are familiar with this fact. It is also easier to find the male G-spot. For some people it may seem depraved to examine that area, but if you keep an open mind about it you could experience the most magnificent orgasms you could ever hope to have.

FINDING THE MALE G-SPOT

The male G-spot is pretty simple to locate, however, it does require a little patience. It is located below the bladder and in front of the rectum. Lying on your back seems to be the most favorable and comfortable position for this, so you will most probably need to use a bed or a large chesterfield. The process will be easier if you have your legs elevated which you can do by having them hang over the back of the sofa or by leaning them against the wall behind the bed. You may also want to try putting a pillow or two under your posterior if you are having trouble reaching the perineum. If this is your first time take your time and use a lubricant. Then slowly insert your finger into the anus and probe gently, you will know when you have reached the prostate gland when you come across the small lump the size of a chestnut that is roughly about two inches inward.

If your partner is on his back your palm should be up, be sure your fingernails are not sharp, and be sure not to touch your own genital area with the same finger you used to penetrate your partners anus. Keep in mind that not all men like prostate stimulation just as many females love having their G-Spot massaged and others find it uncomfortable. Once found and properly rubbed it will create an orgasm that is more stimulating than they have ever had with regular sex.

Prostate milking as it is also called also enables the man to experience multiple orgasms that are longer in duration and gives them the ability to ejaculate without being sexually excited before hand. It has been noted that the orgasms achieved male G-Spot stimulation can be 4 times more powerful and can actually last up to five minutes. It provides what is known as a full body orgasm.

OTHER FACTORS TO TAKE INTO ACCOUNT

 Before you and your partner engage in prostate stimulation or milking, you should take the time to make sure you are relaxed and not just start up in the heat of the moment. Some people will actually have a nice hot bath before beginning. Use a finger to locate and provide stimulation to the G-spot if you are nervous or this is your first time attempting this, there are sexual adult toys you can get that will help you get started. You should mixing techniques as well. Rubbing the penis while gently manipulating the G-spot is one option.

MISTAKEN BELIEFS

People often think that for a man to stimulate his own G-spot is weird and perverse, which is one reason why it is rarely used. G-Spot stimulation is as normal as any form of masturbation, it is not sick, strange or perverted, and it is not only for homosexual men. There is nothing  strange about enjoying the pleasures of self g-spot masturbation. As a very powerful sex gland it can cause a very dynamic orgasm, and it is perfectly normal to experiment with it.


“BE CAREFUL”

There are some risks associated with anal stimulation if it is not done correctly. Too much force on the prostate gland could lead to serious health conditions such as Gangrene, Hemorrhoidal problems, Blood poisoning and Transferring prostate cancer to various parts of the body. The recommended pressure on the G-spot is comparable to the amount of pressure you would use to rub your eyes with.

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When Good Intentions Go Bad

This happened to me several years ago, when I was much younger and naive.  It has to be classified as one of those moments that are a bit mortifying at the time, but in retrospect is truly hysterical.

I was going out with a really nice guy that I had met for a few months at that time. We had moved in together, and of course were exclusive with each other. It had got to the point where we were not using condoms anymore. I mean, I was on the pill, neither of us had an STD, so why would we need them?  In any event, we had been enjoying sex for quite some time.  Looking back, I realize that he was the first person that I had oral sex with. I was only passable at it, but he was amazing. Boy could he get me off!

Somehow that was not enough for me. I was an avid reader and had read about those great orgasms that women in those books always had with their lovers. I wanted to be able to feel that sensation that they described. You see, the issue was that even though he was great at oral sex, he just had no staying power at all with conventional sex. He was just so good at the oral that I was pretty happy for the most part, but I longed for that feeling that I had read about. I mean, it just felt so good for the short time that he was in there that I was sure that my head would come off if he could last longer.

Being somewhat frustrated, and because I would not talk to anybody I knew about it, I felt compelled to take the initiative to correct the problem all by myself.  I had noticed a sex shop near where I worked, and one day I sort of skulked into the place. After a while, I approached the sales lady and explained my problem.  She smiled and said that it was very common, especially with younger men. She said that she had a numbing cream that would desensitize everything and help him to last longer. It appeared to be what I would need, so I bought it from her and took it home with me.

For the rest of the day, time dragged. I had in my hot little hands the formula that would change my sex life forever. It would move my sex life up about a hundred notches at least! I had been waiting my whole adult life for this! I was going to have the kind of orgasm that would make the gods weep, make the earth stop in its orbit, and make a fifty dollar prostitute jealous!

That night, as I was getting ready for bed, I squeezed some from the tube and applied it liberally to my pussy. I could feel the effects immediately! As I got into bed, I left no doubt in his mind that I wanted to make love with him. We kissed long and passionately, then he started to kiss me on the neck, then my nipples. I was going wild. At that point, he started to lick my pussy!

I was waiting for my usual response to his tongue, but something was wrong. It did not feel right! I was just not feeling him like normal. I kept telling him to go faster. Pretty soon I was screaming it! When I looked at him, his eyes were wide in panic. He tried to say something but all that came out was “AHHU HUAM MUHA”. He could not seem to talk! He ran to the bathroom and started to rinse his mouth out with water. In a desperate measure, he started to wash his mouth with soap, but all that did was make him gag. He still could not talk.  It took about a half hour for everything to settle down enough that he could talk.

He asked me if I knew what had happened.  When I explained my problem, he looked at me strangely and then asked to see the tube. Reading the instructions he just looked at me and shook his head. He asked me if I had read the instructions, and I said no. When he asked my why not, I said that the woman in the store told me what to do. She told me I just had to rub it on.  He said that had I actually read the instructions, I would have known to rub it on him rather than on me.  Not only that, but the instructions on the tube said that under no circumstances should you engage in oral sex!

At first I was mortified. Then I started chuckling. Of course laughing is infectious and as we both started to laugh. Pretty soon we were both rolling on the floor stark naked. It was hysterical!

Well several years have gone by, and I am a lot more worldly. As it turns out, that was not my last trip to a sex shop, but I always read the instructions completely, and do exactly as they say.  Unfortunately, our relationship did not last for very long after that night. His career took him some place I could not go. But of all the men I have loved, he is the one that I always smile about when I think of him.

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Where will women's foot fashion go next.

Lately, women are squeezing their agonized tootsies into bondage booties and walking down their community streets looking like something out of some B movie.

It would seem that the fembots of fashion have determined that bondage BDSM chic has supplanted punk chic thus making otherwise sane females look as if they are posing for some Nazi recruiting poster.

In most places, women’s foot fashion has morphed into something Delilah would wear as she snipped Sampson's hair off. Even fashion articles have difficulty articulating this new trend to BDSM chic.

Bondage and BDSM in general is the basis for this outlandish style shift. Probably this is just the natural (unnatural?) outcome after the punk chic types of female role models you see in the music and recording scene. One blog, takes the wraps off the whole sordid affair: “Like so many other things that were only recently considered too sexually charged to see the light of day, in a few short years the leather harness has infiltrated the realms of what we consider fashionable.”

Gotta love that if you are a warm blooded male!

When bondage fashion first started to make the scene a couple of years ago, it was mostly leather, studs with the occasional chain.  Now it has moved on to leather harnesses reminiscent of Ilsa of the SS. Soon, every self-respecting personal assistant will feel the need to appear at work in jackboots, chains, a leather uniform and dual whips. Every supervisor's fantasy I am sure.

Likely there will be an explosion of BDSM office accessories!
New products might include: spanking paddles, whips, prisoner punishment stocks, whipping posts and guest chairs complete with tie down straps! What better way to set an example to other employees for mis-behavior in the workplace! Just think about it! If you hire the right types of people up front, they might actually enjoy the exercise rather than complain to the local labor board! This could be an entirely new job perk, both for subby employees and dom bosses.

Well maybe I have fantasized a bit excessively with this daydream as I watch all the leather, studs and straps traipse by. You gotta wonder though. What the heck are you women thinking about?  Boycott this crap! You cannot lose, because you have already lost your dignity! Strike a blow for sensible shoes!

Generations of women who fought for equality of women are turning over in their graves as this new generation capitulates to stereotype the female once again.

Meanwhile, what do you suppose Ms. Fashionista Dominatrix sees in the mirror when donning her power bondage outfit for work? Probably she sees one mean bitch of a woman who is going to, quite literally, kick some sorry ass today!

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