Maximizing Male Masturbation

 The male orgasm can be a stimulating experience, the major function of the male orgasm is the ejaculation, however some men do not ejaculate with orgasm. The female orgasm is however still a bit of a mystery as to why it happens, it is generally believed that it is to help the sperm proceed along on their journey toward the ovum (egg).

 The majority of men are not at all familiar with their G-spot, some men don't realize that they have one. Some of you will be surprised to learn that the male prostate is in fact the equivalent to the women's G-spot. Not many people out there are familiar with this fact. It is also easier to find the male G-spot. For some people it may seem depraved to examine that area, but if you keep an open mind about it you could experience the most magnificent orgasms you could ever hope to have.

FINDING THE MALE G-SPOT

The male G-spot is pretty simple to locate, however, it does require a little patience. It is located below the bladder and in front of the rectum. Lying on your back seems to be the most favorable and comfortable position for this, so you will most probably need to use a bed or a large chesterfield. The process will be easier if you have your legs elevated which you can do by having them hang over the back of the sofa or by leaning them against the wall behind the bed. You may also want to try putting a pillow or two under your posterior if you are having trouble reaching the perineum. If this is your first time take your time and use a lubricant. Then slowly insert your finger into the anus and probe gently, you will know when you have reached the prostate gland when you come across the small lump the size of a chestnut that is roughly about two inches inward.

If your partner is on his back your palm should be up, be sure your fingernails are not sharp, and be sure not to touch your own genital area with the same finger you used to penetrate your partners anus. Keep in mind that not all men like prostate stimulation just as many females love having their G-Spot massaged and others find it uncomfortable. Once found and properly rubbed it will create an orgasm that is more stimulating than they have ever had with regular sex.

Prostate milking as it is also called also enables the man to experience multiple orgasms that are longer in duration and gives them the ability to ejaculate without being sexually excited before hand. It has been noted that the orgasms achieved male G-Spot stimulation can be 4 times more powerful and can actually last up to five minutes. It provides what is known as a full body orgasm.

OTHER FACTORS TO TAKE INTO ACCOUNT

 Before you and your partner engage in prostate stimulation or milking, you should take the time to make sure you are relaxed and not just start up in the heat of the moment. Some people will actually have a nice hot bath before beginning. Use a finger to locate and provide stimulation to the G-spot if you are nervous or this is your first time attempting this, there are sexual adult toys you can get that will help you get started. You should mixing techniques as well. Rubbing the penis while gently manipulating the G-spot is one option.

MISTAKEN BELIEFS

People often think that for a man to stimulate his own G-spot is weird and perverse, which is one reason why it is rarely used. G-Spot stimulation is as normal as any form of masturbation, it is not sick, strange or perverted, and it is not only for homosexual men. There is nothing  strange about enjoying the pleasures of self g-spot masturbation. As a very powerful sex gland it can cause a very dynamic orgasm, and it is perfectly normal to experiment with it.


“BE CAREFUL”

There are some risks associated with anal stimulation if it is not done correctly. Too much force on the prostate gland could lead to serious health conditions such as Gangrene, Hemorrhoidal problems, Blood poisoning and Transferring prostate cancer to various parts of the body. The recommended pressure on the G-spot is comparable to the amount of pressure you would use to rub your eyes with.

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Horny As Hell

I was desperately horny! After my divorce a couple of years previous, I had not been with a man in any way, especially not in the biblical sense.  So there I was one day looking longingly at the 270 pound butcher at my local meat market. I was just so incredibly horny. Now I know what Penelope must have felt like when her husband Odysseus (Ulysses) was gone for seven years.

For the last two years, I had spent all my time juggling a job, not to be mistaken for a career, and my young daughter.  Finally she was going to school full time, so I was able to steal some time for myself occasionally.  There was one big gigantic problem though. My free time consisted of two split days in the middle of the week.  So there I was with time on my hands and no way to put that time to a useful purpose like getting myself laid. I mean where can you meet guys in the middle of the afternoon for crying out loud. All the men my age at work were married, and the only single males were the boys stocking shelves. My options were few!

In the previous month's timeframe, I had gone through a box of batteries on just my vibrator alone.  It offered relief, but let me tell you, it is nothing like having a man going at you. The difference is like having a TV dinner rather than eating out at a 5 star restaurant to my mind. Keeps you going, but does nothing for your soul. When I found myself looking at the neighbors labrador retriever and wondering, I knew that I had crossed the line. I was now officially off the wall insane!  The lack of sex had finally eroded my entire sense of self worth. I was a nothing. What a miserable way to be!

In an effort to find a man that would be available during my strange off hours, I decided to enlist the aid of the Internet. The Internet was not my first choice, but all the usual venues for meeting men do not work during weekdays. Coffee clubs are great for meeting other stay at home women, but all the men you would want to meet are at work on the weekdays. Even though I might be able to meet some retired guys, my objective was to have some mutual satisfying sex. I did not want to risk having their heart stop in the middle of a marathon sexual orgy with me. PTA, clubs or bars are all after dinner events. There is really no place to meet men during the day. Ergo Internet!

I figured that I needed to be on some form of dating site, but which one? There were thousands of them. Page after page on google search results if you type in dating. I had seen the match.com and eharmony.com commercials on TV, but I did not know if I could believe them. I found plentyoffish talked about a lot, but the name sort of turned me off. Besides, it was another site that seemed to stress long term commitments. I eventually stumbled on a site that had rated a bunch of dating sites, and had the listings of the ones they recommended. It was not clear to me how they actually rated the sites, but I figured – what the heck. So I joined a few that they recommended.

I looked at the lists of sites while I was joining some of them. It was notable which sites where missing from the recommended list. I also found out that I was classified as a MILF.  I will not translate  MILF  to you because it is kinda gross, but I was told that the men on MILF sites realize that all the women have young children living at home.  Needless to say, all the sites that I joined were on their MILF page.

I was surprised at the numbers of emails I was bombarded with. What an amazing whirlwind of interest I fell into. Men were trying to contact me right, left and center. I am only average looking and I was getting offers to date some men's first email to me. What would happen to someone who was younger and really hot?  I found out that Internet dating sites can work really well, but at first they do not. At first you will be swamped by tons of complete crackpots with keyboards. If you are patient though, you can block most of them so that the better healed ones can become more visible to you. Even with all that culling of morons, I was still left with hundreds of decent guys to select from. Since I was not looking for something permanent yet, I tried to focus in on the ones that were looking for a more casual sort of relationship. I mean, I did not want to single out one guy too soon. I was looking for some action and I wanted some variety in that action. No need to settle down right away.

That rating site also had a bunch of advice articles for dating on the Internet. I learned to keep my personal information really private until I was confident I knew the other party was on the up and up. Seems like deprived women like myself tend to get a little careless at times when in heat like I was. So I stayed cool, kept anonymous, and kept safe. It did not take me too long to find four men who could accommodate my afternoon only schedule. Two of them had jobs where they worked the weekend, so they had days off in the middle of the week as well. One was working in traveling sales and often found himself in my town in the middle of the week. The other was between jobs. At this point I really did not care too much about their future prospects, I just wanted to know if they had something that would satisfy my itch.

Since I would always be meeting them in the middle of the afternoon, it was inherently safer than meeting at night. Still the same, I met each of them separately in crowded public places so I could get a better handle on them. You have no idea how hard it was for me to get through two or three dates each without rushing somewhere and ripping off their clothes. I did however, remember the warnings from the site and took my time.  I just had no chemistry with two of them. I would have felt as involved as a prostitute going to bed with them, so I very nicely cast them aside. The other two I now juggle on a weekly basis. One guy on Tuesday afternoon and the other on Thursday. Seems that for this farm girl, two is variety enough. For now!

This all started about 5 months ago, and now that I have my sex urges under control, I am looking for a more permanent relationship. With the two in the bag that I have, I can now take my time and find the right person. This time around, I have to be able to make myself available for a couple of evenings a week. My daughter will have to do without me for a bit. But she is older now, and if I go out after she goes to sleep, I will not be depriving her of any attention. I need all the help I can get. Please wish me luck in my hunt!

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Finding The Male G-Spot

 The male orgasm can be a complex experience, the major function of the male orgasm is the ejaculation, however not all men ejaculate with orgasm. The female orgasm is however still a bit of a mystery as to why it happens, it is generally believed that it is to help the sperm proceed along on their journey toward the ovum (egg).

 The majority of men have little knowledge with their G-spot, some men are not even aware that they have one. A lot of people have no idea that the male prostrate is the equivalent of the female G spot. Not many people are familiar with this fact. It is also easier to find the male G-spot. For some people it may seem abnormal to explore that area, but if you keep an open mind about it you could experience the most fantastic orgasms you could ever hope to have.

FINDING THE MALE G-SPOT

The male G-spot is simple to find, however, it does require a bit of trial and error. It is located below the bladder and in front of the rectum. Lying on your back is about the most convenient way to reach it, so you will likely want to use a bed or a large couch. The process is less problematic if you have your legs elevated which you can do by having them hang over the back of the sofa or by leaning them against the wall behind the bed. You may also want to try putting a pillow or two under your backside if you are having trouble reaching the perineum. When initially trying this take it slow and use a gel. Then slowly insert a finger into the anus and probe slowly, you will know when you have reached the prostate gland when you come across the chestnut sized lump that is roughly about a finger length inward.

With your palm facing your partner's scrotum, insert your finger into your partner's anus, be sure your fingernails are not sharp, and be sure not to touch your own genital area with the same finger you used to penetrate your partners anus. Always remember that many men do not like G-spot stimulation just as many females love having their G-Spot massaged and others find it uncomfortable. Once located and properly rubbed it will create an orgasm that is more stimulating than they have ever had with regular sex.

Prostate milking as it is also called also enables the man to have multiple orgasms that are longer in duration and gives them the ability to ejaculate without being sexually aroused before hand. Orgasms achieved male G-Spot stimulation can be four times more exciting and can persist for 5 minutes. Male G-spot stimulation produces a full body orgasm.

OTHER FACTORS TO TAKE INTO ACCOUNT
 Before you and your better half begin anal g-spot manipulation, it would be best if you take the time to do it slowly and gently. Some people have a hot bath before they proceed. Using a finger is the best way to locate and provide stimulation to the G-spot if nervous or you are a beginner, there are sexual devices you can get that can enhance your experience as well. You should mixing techniques as well. Having your partner perform oral sex while gently manipulating the G-spot is one option.

SOME MISCONCEPTIONS

It has often been stated that for a man to manipulate his own G-spot is unnatural or gay, which is one reason why it is rarely used. G-Spot stimulation is as normal as sexual intercourse, it is not sick, strange or perverted, and it is not only for homosexual men. There is nothing  perverse about enjoying the pleasures of self g-spot milking. It is a very powerful sexual gland that can lead you to a very dynamic orgasm, and it is perfectly normal to experiment with it.


“BE CAREFUL”

There are some risks associated with anal stimulation if it is not done correctly|. Applying too much pressure on the prostate gland can cause several problems such as transferring cancer, blood poisoning, infections, and hemorrhoids. The amount of recommended pressure on the G-spot is about the same as you would use to rub your eyes with.

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When Good Intentions Go Bad

This happened to me several years ago, when I was much younger and naive.  It has to be classified as one of those moments that are a bit mortifying at the time, but in retrospect is truly hysterical.

I was going out with a really nice guy that I had met for a few months at that time. We had moved in together, and of course were exclusive with each other. It had got to the point where we were not using condoms anymore. I mean, I was on the pill, neither of us had an STD, so why would we need them?  In any event, we had been enjoying sex for quite some time.  Looking back, I realize that he was the first person that I had oral sex with. I was only passable at it, but he was amazing. Boy could he get me off!

Somehow that was not enough for me. I was an avid reader and had read about those great orgasms that women in those books always had with their lovers. I wanted to be able to feel that sensation that they described. You see, the issue was that even though he was great at oral sex, he just had no staying power at all with conventional sex. He was just so good at the oral that I was pretty happy for the most part, but I longed for that feeling that I had read about. I mean, it just felt so good for the short time that he was in there that I was sure that my head would come off if he could last longer.

Being somewhat frustrated, and because I would not talk to anybody I knew about it, I felt compelled to take the initiative to correct the problem all by myself.  I had noticed a sex shop near where I worked, and one day I sort of skulked into the place. After a while, I approached the sales lady and explained my problem.  She smiled and said that it was very common, especially with younger men. She said that she had a numbing cream that would desensitize everything and help him to last longer. It appeared to be what I would need, so I bought it from her and took it home with me.

For the rest of the day, time dragged. I had in my hot little hands the formula that would change my sex life forever. It would move my sex life up about a hundred notches at least! I had been waiting my whole adult life for this! I was going to have the kind of orgasm that would make the gods weep, make the earth stop in its orbit, and make a fifty dollar prostitute jealous!

That night, as I was getting ready for bed, I squeezed some from the tube and applied it liberally to my pussy. I could feel the effects immediately! As I got into bed, I left no doubt in his mind that I wanted to make love with him. We kissed long and passionately, then he started to kiss me on the neck, then my nipples. I was going wild. At that point, he started to lick my pussy!

I was waiting for my usual response to his tongue, but something was wrong. It did not feel right! I was just not feeling him like normal. I kept telling him to go faster. Pretty soon I was screaming it! When I looked at him, his eyes were wide in panic. He tried to say something but all that came out was “AHHU HUAM MUHA”. He could not seem to talk! He ran to the bathroom and started to rinse his mouth out with water. In a desperate measure, he started to wash his mouth with soap, but all that did was make him gag. He still could not talk.  It took about a half hour for everything to settle down enough that he could talk.

He asked me if I knew what had happened.  When I explained my problem, he looked at me strangely and then asked to see the tube. Reading the instructions he just looked at me and shook his head. He asked me if I had read the instructions, and I said no. When he asked my why not, I said that the woman in the store told me what to do. She told me I just had to rub it on.  He said that had I actually read the instructions, I would have known to rub it on him rather than on me.  Not only that, but the instructions on the tube said that under no circumstances should you engage in oral sex!

At first I was mortified. Then I started chuckling. Of course laughing is infectious and as we both started to laugh. Pretty soon we were both rolling on the floor stark naked. It was hysterical!

Well several years have gone by, and I am a lot more worldly. As it turns out, that was not my last trip to a sex shop, but I always read the instructions completely, and do exactly as they say.  Unfortunately, our relationship did not last for very long after that night. His career took him some place I could not go. But of all the men I have loved, he is the one that I always smile about when I think of him.

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Maintaining A Healthy Relationship

It appears to me that a lot of  couples these days, forget who they started out being. Many couples forget their roots. Once they become a couple, they often lose track of the reasons why they bonded in the first place. Why is that?  Do we really change all that much?  I don't think so. So why then do we so often start to drift apart? The truth is we just get too comfortable, and no longer put forth  the effort  that we did in the beginning. To fix it, we have to inject new life into the mix.

You should reflect on your relationship and what has changed—likely there was there more kissing, touching, texting and bantering than now . Those early connections not only moved the relationship forward initially, they are also instrumental in keeping the relationship fresh now.  Why would we want to let that initial excitement die? Now, there are those relationships that are just not meant to be, but I am talking about couples who have been in a longer, more committed relationship, and who really love each other.  We often blame the failure on stress, stress at work, financial stress, etc., but this is not the real culprit here.  All these issues were probably the same ones we've  dealt with in the past that made us closer in the first place.

We fall into a pattern- we get lazy. We get into our comfort zone, and let things deteriorate past the point of no return. Men for instance, start ogling more at other women, and making comments about how good looking they are, and they forget about the one their with.  Women might take a look at the cute butt of some hot guy, and romanticize about them. The issue is that we start to neglect each other in small ways that end up being very significant in the long run. We start to feel less adequate - less attractive. Many times we do not want to bring up each small issue,for fear of looking like a nit picker, but the result is a cascading failure of the relationship as small issues continue to be swept under the carpet. Both men and women need to be fearless in expressing their disapproval, and faultless in absorbing and trying to understand the complaints.  We must always be sensitive to our partner's feelings - relationships take work, and when both partners work at it - it grows into a lasting romance. Here are some examples of points to ponder to keep a relationship healthy:

1) Make a conscious effort to compliment your partner on a daily basis- you will be surprised at how how much a compliment means to your partner, and how good it makes them feel
2) Love them and tell them that you love them. Never force them to assume that you love them
3) Men have to stop staring at other women – it may be conditioned by advertising, but it is just demeaning to your partner. And women need to think about comments that they may make about other guys.
4)  Dishonesty is the root of all relationship dissension – make a habit of telling the truth, even if it might lead to embarrassing explanations.
5) No matter how busy you are, and other than sleeping at night, make sure you set aside at least an hour a day to be alone together
6) Communicate- tell your partner how you feel, and work things out before they become worse than they are.
7) Start your day off with a kiss and a statement that re-enforces your love and commitment to each other.
8) Be relaxed and do not be afraid of public displays of affection – some public kissing and tenderness will exhibit to the world how you care about your partner and broadcast to them that you love them and want to make sure that everyone knows it
9) Don't be so serious...Laugh, smile, you know that saying “Partners that laugh together stay together” Its so true.....
10)  Never go to bed angry – talk it out and work it out – the best thing for a relationship is a kiss before you go to sleep. The second best thing is sex before you go to sleep. You cannot have the second without the first.

Relationships all have their ups, and downs, but if you have heart, and desire to make it work it will blossom into something special. So, don't let that spark creep away- follow the above rules, and create some of your own a long the way....just have fun if you can dream about it then you can achieve it..
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Sex Appeal And the Single Girl

Can you define sex appeal? Most dictionaries describe it as”the ability to excite people sexually”, but dictionaries also describe sexy as being”sexually interesting or exciting.” You may think that they are the same, but in fact they are not. Lets examine this further.

If a man sees  a attractive woman someplace wearing a short skirt, and low cut top to show off her cleavage.  He may acknowledge to himself that she is hot and sexy, but does that mean she has sex appeal? While the two are often blurry at the boundaries it is quite common to see someone as described above. So what does it take for more focused attention?

Men tend to focus on what is currently in front of their eyes, and there will always be another sexy girl around the corner. Sexy is a requirement for and immediate grab at attention,but unlike sex appeal they will likely forget what a merely sexy woman looks like within a few minutes. Sexy is just a quick attention getter, and will generally never amount to more than that.  Someone who dresses to make herself feel good, and grab attention can be sexy, but it will never lead to more persistence of notice, and that is the difference here. Sexy is only the top of the muffin.

Sex appeal sex appeal is more than just clothes and a hot body, it is a product of having self confidence, and your value if yourself. When a person has this total package they catch the eye of surrounding people. This magnetic glow makes those people around you feel good too. A woman with sex appeal will look great in rags. She knows that it's the woman that makes the clothes not the other way around. She instinctively dresses in a style that will always add to and not detract from the image that she portrays to the public. Women with sex appeal are always humorous, intelligent and in touch with their sexuality and sensuality. We've all been around an up-beat individual  who seems to smile all the time, and laughs a lot, even when things may be concerning for them. This joy of life is a cornerstone of sex appeal.

Sex appeal stands up, stands out and is visible. Women Ladies with sex appeal appreciate you in spite of your faults, they  do not let one bad experience affect their relationships with others. They compartmentalize their expectations of each acquaintance individually. Sex appeal generally emanates from positive outgoing people never run down, but rather talk up other people. All of this flows from them being the sensual and loving people that they are.

Hopefully you can now see the differences. It pretty much boils down to this-- if you have learned to love yourself, and others,  it will  emanate into sex appeal as, it is all about personal development, self image and poise. Guys will always respond to sexy—no doubt, but it takes the whole person to get into his head, and past the eyes.

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College Dating

Now don't get me wrong, I'm not completely around the bend or anything like that, but please stop telling me to enjoy being single because “one day” I might find myself with a wife, youngsters and a condo, being single is beginning to wear on me. I have been single for all my life, single is my closest confidant,  I have had more relationship problem's than relationships, I want to have a relationship with someone other than my dog, college dating stinks, for me anyway. Why does it appear like everyone around me is winning at the game of love except me, Losing in love has become a habit that is getting harder and harder to break.

I once asked someone close to me (no not my gold fish), but rather a college friend how she does it, I told her that when I go to get together s, other women seem to have no problem connecting with guys, but no matter who I take a shine to, I am constantly outmaneuvered by other women who walk away with the trophy. Her answer was to ask me what I would do if someone tried to line jump in front of me. I replied I would elbow them and tell then to get in line and wait their turn like everyone else. She said excellent, the next time some girl tries to take your man just give her a shove, slide up to the hot dude of your dreams and make him slobber all over you. Maybe I should have asked my cat.

College guys mystify me, I'm a smart attractive young woman but they act like I am a wart on their butts sometimes. The ones I do go out with are only interested in the horizontal mambo, for many college guys you have to shell out or get out, so I'd rather get out.

But its not just females that have problems, there are college guys who have problems with coeds. It seems if you won't go to bed with them they want nothing to do with you, its too bad because most people have more to offer than just sex. The boys tell me that some of the girls expect them have sex with them off the get go and if they  want to wait a bit she trashes them to her friends. These are nice guys that respect women and don't just think of them as an easy lay, why can't these girls see that these men will not accept this sort of treatment.

However there might be a silver lining to this cloud, several of the guys and girls have decided to join several of the more successful online college dating sites. They have heard some amazing stories from other college students who met their dream date on one of the college dating sites. They said the people on these sites don't care how much money you have and they are interesting to talk to and any sex is just part of the total package, they're decent people, and college students like us. They have a life plan that includes more than just getting through the current semester. They are interested in finding that certain person and one day settling down. My best friend met his future wife on an online college dating site, I had no idea at the time what he was up to or how they found each other.

My friends have been so successful that I have decided to try it for myself.  My friends told me about this site they found that lists and ranks a bunch of online dating sites, and they have an entire page on just college dating sites. They said that this is where they started to look for college dating sites to join, and they have nothing but good things to say about the way the site recommends and rates the various college dating sites. Who knows maybe I'll finally find someone who is caring and decent. If you are in college or looking to date someone  who is in college why don't you follow this link:

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